The hardest part of planning a wedding in a pandemic is knowing when it is “safe” to celebrate again. With many loved ones now living states apart, gathering at a large wedding is not as simple as it once was.
I have loved seeing the innovation and solution of many couples turning to what is now deemed as a micro-wedding. These small gatherings include their families and inner circle of friends, typically on their intended wedding date, while planning on a gathering and celebrating with other social circles on a future date.
Though it might not be the large gathering you were originally planning, this event can still be beautiful with elegant and special touches that would not have been possible on a larger scale.
Personalized Favors:
Having a smaller gathering allows you to have a more intentional seating placement, as well as allows you to add a special flair with personalized favors! These favors can include engraved mini champaign bottles, holiday ornaments, bottle openers or something you feel like best represents your love story.
Adding the Extras
Fill in some of the gaps with extra beautiful signs at both your ceremony and reception. From a Welcome sign to personalized drink signs, splurge to include these beautiful (and often keep sake) items that can be used at your larger party in the future!
Keep Decor Simple, but Sentimental
With a smaller group attending will mean you have more time to mingle, dance, and add those special touches that will be meaningful to look back at when you look at your photos. Add those special touches through such things as the same flowers that your partner sent you the first month of dating, adding personalized menus at each place setting, swiping out table numbers for important milestones or places in your relationship, or have a cocktail named after your favorite song or your beloved pet you share (mine would be The Italics after my cat). These details, of course, can be added at any wedding of any size, but are great conversation starters as well as focal points for your guests in the smaller setting.